舒緩面對親戚的交際壓力 - 芳療
By Bethany
at 2017-01-12T17:46
at 2017-01-12T17:46
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各位芳療版香民好
已爬文,但是找不到類似我的狀況,
過年快到了, 好焦慮T___T
是這樣的,我在去年年底成為人妻,
短短兩三個月內,老公一直急著希望我能夠融入婆家的話題
頻率大概就是周末有空要回去吃個飯,如果有連假就跟著婆家一起出去踏青
面對婆家的人-公公婆婆我行我素,想講什麼就直接講,想批評什麼都直接批評
小至路邊的園藝布置,大至公婆之間的價值觀差異等等
常常就對著家人倒情緒垃圾,
或是一直提出他們(自以為是)的堅持要別人附和
本來我覺得沒什麼, 但是漸漸地幾次相處就覺得,
這根本就是一種排山倒海的精神壓力 ╮-____-)╮
再加上我老公,並不會覺得他爸媽這樣的行為有什麼不好,常常幫他爸媽的行為護航
就讓我心裡覺得更悶,有種有苦難言,
即使講了吵了說這樣太過頻繁造成我精神壓力很大,他依然不懂為什麼,也不想幫我
幾次累積下來,讓我更排斥這種"又不能拒絕,去了又讓自己情緒很糟糕)
所以我有一次在出遊的時候,帶了巴哈的急救花精
在自己覺得面對婆家的親戚們(公公婆婆複製版*N) 情緒壓力攻擊,快要瀕臨崩潰之下,
滴了四滴來喝,
過一會,果然覺得"恩,波動的情緒被急救花精緩和下來,對周遭有種產生防護罩的效果"
結果我老公後來又責怪我說
你的反應和互動很木然,這樣要怎麼融入大家?
(ノ‵□′)ノ~┴─┴這樣也不行?!!! 讓我當場不爽加心酸
現在年關快到了,想到無法避免要跟婆家的人相處,還有不可預期的婆家親戚*N
一旦相處,勢必是種精神爆炸+轟炸!
相處時,又得要裝一張臉演虛偽的戲~還不能夠木然?!
光想到,就覺得有壓力
要跪求香民們,有沒有什麼配方能夠讓我在這種場景下,
不要崩潰又能夠"怡然"面對?
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