男生看女生的身材標準 - 減肥
By Ophelia
at 2012-08-06T01:08
at 2012-08-06T01:08
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※ 引述《hippo518 (<( >﹏<)╱)》之銘言:
: 大概在二月中開始吧,為了健康(想要培養運動習慣),也順帶想要更苗條
: 我知道數據來說我過瘦了,然後身邊朋友也都比較喜歡我之前豐腴的樣子(160/47~53)
: 因為我好愛跑步,但膝蓋原本就不大好,本想增強強度和里程,想說以後可以跑個半馬..
: 我好友女生的反應都是:我不適合
: 我好友男生的反應都是:你到底練成這樣要幹嘛?
: 但到目前為止,真的沒有身邊的人是稱讚我這樣很〝好看〞的
: 但學長就跟我說...女生就該是那個樣子,有點肉肉的,不該做甚麼重訓
: 我‧好‧難‧過
: 在別人和自己的眼光中,好希望能夠是我覺得喜歡別人也覺得美的
: 不可否認我真心希望得到大家的誇讚
我看了一下回文,
有板友分別指出為什麼你膝蓋不好、你是結實還是過瘦
因為我也不是專業人士,所以我就不回了
主要是來跟你分享一個熟人的事情
她跟你一樣,練到身邊的人說她太瘦了,
她有朋友說她像一枝筷子插一顆貢丸
她說她希望自己像許芳宜一樣,
但是在旁人的眼裡看起來,她那是過瘦,不是像許芳宜一樣「結實」
我看到的是她的兩頰都凹下去了,而且原本有的屁股跟胸部都不見了
她的脾氣變得很不好,很容易發怒、很容易覺得大家對她不好
但吃東西之後脾氣明顯會改善
只是她的脾氣跟她的焦慮都發洩在別人身上
身體常常不是這裡痛就是那裏痛,但是看起來她體能好得很
她有很多不能吃的東西,
但是其他看起來跟她一樣瘦或比她瘦的女生,
其實都會吃、都照吃那些東西,
而且吃的比她多、也沒有特地一直去運動、去減肥
她的話題千篇一律,一直重複,而且講沒有多久就繞到自己的身體上
我收集了一些意見,其實有一些人不喜歡她這樣
講話的內容聽起來也不是一個快樂的人會說的話,其實有點驚悚
而且他會一直去看醫生,但是又會自己擅自減藥,
結果就是醫生開給她的劑量越來越大
她每個禮拜都會看幾次不同科的醫生,加上常常不知原因的受傷
看醫生的次數跟自行用藥的情況,理由都是為了調整自己外貌的缺點
當時的我身為她朋友,其實我覺得我快被她整死了
她還有一些其其他他的小事情我就不說了
事後我沒有跟她往來,自己做自己的事,我覺得非常開心
但是對於她,我一直有一個疑惑,就是「她以前不是這樣的」
要我說的話,我認為她最美的樣子其實是她以前的樣子
我事後去看了一些介紹,發現這可能是有焦慮或憂鬱的情況
老實說,當下講,當事人都聽不進去,而且能講她的人是要「有資格」的
而且她們也不敢講:為了安撫自己的焦慮與不安全感,她們私底下做了甚麼
所以我本人是無從置喙起
或許你不需要再努力地矯正你的外貌了
因為你已經不是以前的樣子了
我事後是會想說,我應該要強硬一點告訴她我的疑慮,並且陪她去諮商
不過那也是過去式了
正因為這些話不是當時的她聽得進去的,
所以我選擇在這裡、因為你的問題說出來
也當作是對當時的情況做一點小小的彌補
--
: 大概在二月中開始吧,為了健康(想要培養運動習慣),也順帶想要更苗條
: 我知道數據來說我過瘦了,然後身邊朋友也都比較喜歡我之前豐腴的樣子(160/47~53)
: 因為我好愛跑步,但膝蓋原本就不大好,本想增強強度和里程,想說以後可以跑個半馬..
: 我好友女生的反應都是:我不適合
: 我好友男生的反應都是:你到底練成這樣要幹嘛?
: 但到目前為止,真的沒有身邊的人是稱讚我這樣很〝好看〞的
: 但學長就跟我說...女生就該是那個樣子,有點肉肉的,不該做甚麼重訓
: 我‧好‧難‧過
: 在別人和自己的眼光中,好希望能夠是我覺得喜歡別人也覺得美的
: 不可否認我真心希望得到大家的誇讚
我看了一下回文,
有板友分別指出為什麼你膝蓋不好、你是結實還是過瘦
因為我也不是專業人士,所以我就不回了
主要是來跟你分享一個熟人的事情
她跟你一樣,練到身邊的人說她太瘦了,
她有朋友說她像一枝筷子插一顆貢丸
她說她希望自己像許芳宜一樣,
但是在旁人的眼裡看起來,她那是過瘦,不是像許芳宜一樣「結實」
我看到的是她的兩頰都凹下去了,而且原本有的屁股跟胸部都不見了
她的脾氣變得很不好,很容易發怒、很容易覺得大家對她不好
但吃東西之後脾氣明顯會改善
只是她的脾氣跟她的焦慮都發洩在別人身上
身體常常不是這裡痛就是那裏痛,但是看起來她體能好得很
她有很多不能吃的東西,
但是其他看起來跟她一樣瘦或比她瘦的女生,
其實都會吃、都照吃那些東西,
而且吃的比她多、也沒有特地一直去運動、去減肥
她的話題千篇一律,一直重複,而且講沒有多久就繞到自己的身體上
我收集了一些意見,其實有一些人不喜歡她這樣
講話的內容聽起來也不是一個快樂的人會說的話,其實有點驚悚
而且他會一直去看醫生,但是又會自己擅自減藥,
結果就是醫生開給她的劑量越來越大
她每個禮拜都會看幾次不同科的醫生,加上常常不知原因的受傷
看醫生的次數跟自行用藥的情況,理由都是為了調整自己外貌的缺點
當時的我身為她朋友,其實我覺得我快被她整死了
她還有一些其其他他的小事情我就不說了
事後我沒有跟她往來,自己做自己的事,我覺得非常開心
但是對於她,我一直有一個疑惑,就是「她以前不是這樣的」
要我說的話,我認為她最美的樣子其實是她以前的樣子
我事後去看了一些介紹,發現這可能是有焦慮或憂鬱的情況
老實說,當下講,當事人都聽不進去,而且能講她的人是要「有資格」的
而且她們也不敢講:為了安撫自己的焦慮與不安全感,她們私底下做了甚麼
所以我本人是無從置喙起
或許你不需要再努力地矯正你的外貌了
因為你已經不是以前的樣子了
我事後是會想說,我應該要強硬一點告訴她我的疑慮,並且陪她去諮商
不過那也是過去式了
正因為這些話不是當時的她聽得進去的,
所以我選擇在這裡、因為你的問題說出來
也當作是對當時的情況做一點小小的彌補
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